Time Wasters, Fat Burning and Design Dilemmas

Who knew?!? Apparently Diana Ross is associated with the Supremes… not the Temptations.  I don’t know my Motown but am finding Family Feud on Facebook (one of my new time-wasters) a great tool to point out that I:
a) don’t think like the general population
b) am clueless when it comes to, well… alot of things!

My other new time-waster is the NY Times Crossword app for my iPhone.  Love it.  Also a big huge fan of Yahtzee (iPhone), Word Whomp (Pogo), and Bejewelled (Facebook & iPhone).   Hmmm…too many distractions in this crazy life!

I have to say with this wonderful weather, I’ve been heading outdoors a little more often and my reading has fallen by the wayside.  Yikes!  I feel like I’ve lost a friend…. but that Mr. Sun is just so warm and welcoming, my fingers itch to get dirty and my legs just want to wander so those books aren’t calling as loudly.   I’m sure once the summer heat arrives, I’ll be lounging with a book in hand and enjoying the sun, but for now, the great outdoors are calling.

Now that we’re down a vehicle, I find I’m taking advantage of the beautiful days and walking more – keeps me from going stir crazy when I’m home during the day.   Usually it’s just a quick jaunt around the block – fresh air for Mommy, burns some energy for whichever of the monkeys are home with me and I feel good.   Today I thought I’d be a little more ambitious and extended my block – to major intersections rather than just around our neighbourhood.

I walked 4.5 kilometres (3.79 miles) in just over an hour – we got distracted by the sights and had a nice chat with a random lady.  Justin walked partway and hopped in the stroller – for most of the hills!  My legs are not used to some of the inclines and my hips are sore.  I haven’t walked this route EVER and don’t think I quite made 4.5 kms last spring/summer when I was walking somewhat regularly.   I’m not used to it yet but it was invigorating!  This may become a regular route for Justin-only days.   I got home and calculated the calories burned:  roughly 352.   Sad!   Although that’s better than nothing, I was curious as to “what” it burned off:   a little more than a medium Tim’s Iced Cap and a little less than a Starbucks Grande Caramel Frappucino with whip.  Thank goodness I’m not drinking those daily and no wonder I’m not losing weight!

On a side note, Justin loved the sights along the way.   We saw the usual:  dogs, squirrels and random birds but extra special, we saw a bluejay, a cardinal, a chipmunk and a tiny purple flower that randomly sprang up in the woods.    I also saw a few trees and flowers that I covet for my garden – is it a magnolia that has the large pretty pale pink blooms?  I love those! 

We bought our LAMINATE!   (It’s not hardwood – sigh! – but we’re hoping it holds up to the wear and tear of kids and the dog better.)  Our home renos will start this weekend, I think!   Yay for updating!   Fresh paint, new floors and less clutter will hopefully make a HUGE difference.    So now I have some design questions (because I have no eye whatsoever for decor!)

Which way would you lay the laminate?    When you walk in the front door, the entrance is tiled and you’re facing west.   It’s open into the “living room” (actually a dining room), with the carpeted stairs off the left, entrance to the kitchen beside the stairs and through the dining room is the wide doorway and half wall separating the “family room” (great room.) with the fireplace.   It’s all very open concept.   The 2 rooms combined are about 17′ x 30′.  It’s only 17′ at the widest points as our rooms all have peculiar angles.   Would you run the laminate wood the length of the two rooms (perpendicular to the tiled entrance, fireplace and two western windows beside the fireplace) or would you run it across, parallel to the fireplace, halfwall, tiled floor, etc?

Second, at the stairs would you butt the laminate planks right up against them?  Or would you leave a landing area?  If you left some carpet behind, how big an area?  The width (or slightly more) than the depth of a step or bring it out and angle to flow with the walls?  Like I said, we have a lot of odd angles in the house!

Thirdly, what colours would you paint my walls? I know, a personal choice… but I can’t decide!  Especially because I don’t have furniture for both rooms and it’s not in the budget.   We’ll be sticking to our blue set, moving the tv into the “living room”, and tossing the ivory loveseats (not kid or dog friendly!)  I’m not sure what purpose the “family room” will then serve – but I’m sure it will become more of a playroom/kid-friendly zone.    Our kitchen cabinets are light (maple), our counters are a mixed brown, and the hardwood is darker with a red undertone.   Decisions, decisions.

I’ll post some pictures in a secondary post so you can get a visual 🙂  Ignore the mess – I didn’t clean up first!

Blah, blah, blah…

…is exactly how I’ve felt this week.  The kids have been miserable and bickering with one another non-stop.  The rain didn’t help.   Thank goodness yesterday and today were a bit nicer.

In between early mornings, restless sleepers and a midnight trip to emerg with a croupy monkey, I’ve been feeling worn out.   I’ve been tired and cranky which turns into lazy!  So my house was a disaster too…  I know I should be positive and look at all the things I can be grateful for but it’s been difficult to see the bright side of things the last few days.

I need to remember to cast my cares, stop worrying and follow peace.  To lean on others and not feel guilty when I need a break.    I’ve never been good with changes and decisions (as much as I can get quite excited about them!)   Here is what’s been niggling at my brain this week:

* Justin… is sick again.  This kid doesn’t seem to stay away from the sniffles for longer than a week.  As mentioned before, we (read: I) ended up taking him to emerg one night because he woke up wheezing and barking (and then screaming in pain) so badly.   We were fortunate to be seen within 15 minutes of arriving (never happens here!) and then sat through 2 hours of treatment.  The respiratory therapist was great (made a game out of the mask and said Justin was a dragon).   Keep praying that he gets (and stays) well, please.   He needs his strength and has a hard time fighting things off.

** We are now down to one car.   Kev’s lease was returned and he’ll be driving “my” car into work.  This is a good thing (I think) but it will be an adjustment.  I’m a little worried I might start to go stir-crazy being housebound.   Yes, I know we can walk…but it’s B’ville.  Really, what’s there to walk too?   I was (see next paragraph) limited to one or two days a week running errands before… but I took advantage of those days when I didn’t have daytime daycare placements to go out and about.  Doing groceries, meeting friends for lunch, hitting the library, etc. were all done on Wednesdays or Fridays and left weeknights free to just hang out at home.   On a positive side, we’ll be saving a bit of money!

*** I am down two daycare kids as of last week.  Their mom is on mat leave and while we’re excited for their family and soon-to-arrive baby, I don’t have a clue what to do myself.  This family was a big chunk of my income but with summer right around the corner and only having 2 kids on a part-time basis for those 8-9 weeks, I’m not sure whether I should advertise for more summer placements (good money but long weeks!) or hold-off until the next school year starts and keep it strictly before-and-after. To wait until September will mean a few really lean months but a lot less stress… gah, I hate decisions!  It also affects any vacation plans we may have had (see next paragraph.)

****  Our summer vacation plans have gone out the window as of yesterday due to funds needed elsewhere.  We weren’t going to do anything truly exciting but I was going to take at least 2 weeks off and Kev at least one.  We weren’t sure whether we were going to stick around home, road trip, camping or what, but it was in the works.   Now we’re replacing carpets on the main floor.  Diesel had a vicious encounter with the existing carpet and underpad.  We’re missing chunks of both and the carpet was torn all the way back a couple feet and now has an ugly (noticeable) split in it.  We were planning on replacing it eventually… but that was projected for at least another 2 years.   Maybe we can camp out on the new hardwood.

*****  Why are there so many freakin’ hardwood options out there?  I know I don’t want anything too dark, but we brought home some samples and I don’t think I want anything too light either.  I don’t have an eye for decor either so the whole fact that we have very light kitchen cupboards throws me for a loop.   I have a few top runners but my reasons why they’ve made the cut are very varied and include eco-friendliness (bamboo), grain (maple/oak), as well as pricing/financing options.   On the bright side, Kev will take some time off and we’ll work on this project weekends and while kids are in school…. and paint my walls! (So not only do I have to make a decision on hardwood but I have to pick out paint colours, too?!?)

*Sigh*  I know that was a long, not-very-positive reflection… but I’m hoping this week will resolve alot of my concerns and maybe have some happier, sunnier days. 

(PS – anyone have any good venue ideas for a 3rd birthday in the beginning of May???  I’m hoping for sunny, warm weather and maybe we can do a picnic in the park…but last year was cold and drizzly!)

Spring, Spring, A Marvelous Thing…

I’m so glad it’s spring!   Sunshine, raindrops, cool breezes, green grass and buds galore!

I wrote a whole post and went to publish when Explorer decided to crash… so I’ll recap our Easter activities here:

Tuesday: 

Celebrated afterschool with a houseful of kids.   We enjoyed yummy Easter egg cookies (“These are great!”  “No, these are better than great!”), painted ceramic egg banks (I’m still finding glitter all over my house) and went on an egg-hunt!
Friday:

Took the boys to see “How To Train Your Dragon”.  Cute movie, even if I missed scenes because  Monkey #2 had the wiggles and wouldn’t stop talking!
Below is a picture of Justin earlier in the week enjoying a movie-themed Happy Meal.  He’s a cute little Viking.
Saturday:
Kaleb & I hit the mall after Mommy realised the monkeys needed a wardrobe rehab to deal with warm weather.   We were on the hunt for some pants that A) did not have holes in the knees or at the hems,  B) were not lined with polar fleece and C) are easy to pull on and off.   Our hunt was frustrating as every store seemed to have the size up or size down from what we needed but Kaleb made the most of it and convinced Mommy to stand in line for the Bunny Hop path at the OC.   Check out my cute little bunny here.   It took an hour to colour, get the bunny ears, face painted, picture taken, popcorn sample, and cuddle with the rabbit named Timbit, but he had fun and may be in the local paper.
 

Sunday:

Egg hunt and all that jazz.   I (being the Easter bunny) always find it challenging to limit the chocolate and candy but still find good stuff (read: not junk) for the eggs.   We scored with fruit gummies, bubbles, hatching critters, Toy Story figurines and play-dough.    The baskets are also a challenge but this year we lucked out at the dollar store:  we filled new sand buckets with Spiderman toothbrushes, Spiderman shampoo/body wash, a Kinder bunny, Pez dispenser, clapping Monkey candy tube, bubbles, Easter story book and What’s In the Bible DVDs.
We read Kaleb’s new Easter story during breakfast than headed to church.  After church we went to visit with family.   The boys love spending time with their cousins and Papa & Oma and with the beautiful weather, we all truly enjoyed the Easter weekend!
 

Sweet Serenity

I don’t often have music on in the house – I’m not exactly certain why, but I lean towards the reason having something to do with the chaos and noise that surrounds this household.   We’re loud!    There is usually one afternoon a week that the house falls silent – Kaleb and the daycare kids are at school, I have no errands to run and Justin is quite content to hang out with Mommy.

These are the days I turn on the radio, pick a digital channel on Rogers or actually use my iPod or the iPod feature on my iPhone.   On a very rare occasion, I’ll pick up one of the kids music cds or dvds (this depends on my patience level and weighing whether the entertainment value will outweigh the annoyance quotient).

 Today, I went even rarer and popped in one of Justin’s PraiseBaby DVDs.   I highly recommend these for any Christian family with a baby or toddler in the house.  Justin is 3 and still cuddles up on the couch and even if he doesn’t watch it, Mommy actually finds the combination of classic hymns and contemporary church songs quite soothing – a sweet serene soundtrack to balance my otherwise crazy, chaotic existance.

9 Months Til Christmas!

We’re coming through a busy week and quickly approaching what is going to be a very busy weekend. (why does the week following a holiday seem so exhausting?) We have birthday parties, kid-shuttling, concerts, laundry, housework, etc. My kids woke up fighting before 6 am this morning and are super-cranky (not to mention the other children who have invaded my home and brought their grumpies with them.) I blame it on the weather – the gloomy overcast skies are not bringing out the best in people today – myself included. I’m feeling icky with a sore back/kidneys and am hoping the antibiotics fight this infection as quickly as they can!

On to happier things, Easter is right around the corner. It’s hard to believe how fast March seems to have flown by. Someone on Facebook pointed out that we only have 9 months til Christmas! I’m glad it’s spring but I much prefer the warmer sunnier days. We have started our seeds (well, the boys did their seeds) in anticipation of adding them to the garden in May. I still have to finish my planning and decide what I want to grow this year and change my strategies as Diesel digs up everything he can right now. I looked in both the front and back gardens the other day and LOVE seeing the new buds on my shrubs and the sprouts peeking through the ground from my bulbs! Mother’s Day will also be here before you know it – check out the most recent Vintage Pearl contest: The Vintage Pearl: the key to my heart { a giveaway! }. They’ve come up with two absolutely adorable skeleton key designs that you can get stamped to reflect who holds the key to your heart. They are beautifully simple and I really love the first key design (nudge, nudge, wink, wink, Kev!)

I have a funny story about a book (ok, maybe it’s not funny but it will give you a slightly deeper insight into how much I love books.) The other day I went to help one of the monkeys with something and left a library book sitting on the back of thecouch. By the time I got back into the living room, less than 2 minutes later, Diesel had pulled off the cover and a few of the title pagesand left a couple teeth marks in the text. I was rather disappointed in the dog but upset with myself for not putting the book out of the way. I was even more disappointed that it happened to be a book I’d probably have no desire to read again.

Yesterday at the library, I explained what happened fully intending to ‘buy’ the book. The librarian looked it up in the system and decided as it was an older book and has rarely been checked out she would wipe it from the system as damaged – she said it was because the sun was shining and things happen! While my greatest reaction was gratitude at not having to buy the book, as she tossed it into the trash I felt like I had betrayed a friend and wanted to argue that no, really, I will pay for the book – just to save it from it’s fate in the bin. Sad, isn’t it? I refrained and with great appreciation let her do me that favour.

Speaking of the library, while I appreciate being able to reserve in advance, with some of the new releases from authors I enjoy I’m not patient enough to wait my turn to read a copy. I really want to read the new Jodi Picoult novel, House Rules. I’m deep on the waiting list. Just wondering if you’ve read it, if I should invest or if you own it, can I borrow please?

Fabulous Finds

I’ve never purchased on Etsy but I shop (window shop, that is) all the time.  Someone (my mother, perhaps?) asked what I look for and honestly, more often than not, I go to browse rather than looking for a particular something.    I look not only for things to buy but often to get some creative inspiration.

Here are some of my recent Etsy faves:

Garden Love Handmade Buttons
$8.50 USD
Seller:  Tessa Ann

These adorable buttons would look perfect adorning a spring-themed
scrapbook page or handmade card.


Reversible Fabric Organizer Bin
$18 USD
Seller:  Baffinbags

I would love to get some of these to organize the monkeys’ room.  Also available in a variety of other fabrics – they’re all just so appealing!


Tri-Fold Colouring Crayon Wallets
$15 USD
Seller:  GetSassed

These are a great idea for dinners out, waiting rooms and long car trips.  Super-cute to tote around as well.  Also available in other kid-friendly patterns.    These might just make it onto my stocking stuffer list!

Vintage Frame Chalkboard
$28 USD
Seller:  ShabbyChalks

Such a simple idea – especially if you have some extra frames lying around.   I would like to invest (or create) my own for my craft room.   

Cotton Dishcloths
$14 USD
Seller:  AnitaMeadeCreations

Just like Oma used to make…except these are knit rather than crocheted.   Still the best kind of dishcloth around!    Use the Etsy search feature and see how many others pop up.

I also love browsing the vintage.  I saw a fabulous dress yesterday and even more fabulous shoes – unfortunately both were too small and too pricey so I didn’t bookmark as a favourite.   I can’t find the photos today.

There are so many other lovely (and some not-so-lovely) products just waiting to be found.   You (well maybe not “you”, but rather “I”) could spend hours getting lost in the goodies just waiting to be discovered.  You can search by colour, just purchased, just added, location, keywords, etc.   Etsy is a world just waiting to be explored.

Fudgy Chocolate Brownies with Raspberry Orange Sauce

Saw this Becel brownie recipe in my MedicAlert newsletter (which I rarely open let alone flip through.)  I thought they sounded delicious and while I haven’t tried them yet, I will in the near future – although I will undoubtedly tweak to suit my pantry (i.e. substituting butter for margarine and sticking to one type of flour).

Brownies                                                                      
2 tbsp 30 mL Becel margarine
1/2 cup 125 mL cocoa powder

1 cup 250 mL granulated sugar
1 egg
3/4 cup 175 mL unsweetened applesauce
2 tsp 10 mL vanilla
1/4 cup 50 mL all-purpose flour
1/4 cup 50 mL whole wheat flour
1/4 tsp 2 mL each: baking soda, salt

Sauce

1/4 cup 500 mL Fresh or frozen raspberries
1/2 cup 125 mL orange juice
1/3 cup 75 mL granulated sugar
1 tbsp 15 mL cornstarch
2 tbsp 30 mL cold water

Directions:
1.Preheat oven to 350 F (180 C). Spray an 8-inch (20-cm) square baking pan with nonstick cooking spray. Dust with cocoa, shaking out excess.

2.In a small saucepan, melt margarine on low heat. Remove from heat and stir in cocoa, sugar, egg, applesauce and vanilla, beating until smooth. Gently stir in flours, baking soda and salt until well-combined.

3.Pour into prepared pan and bake 25 to 30 minutes or until set. Cool completely and cut into 16 squares with a hot wet, knife. Store in the refrigerator.

4.Combine raspberries, orange juice and sugar in saucepan. Bring to a boil, stirring constantly. Dissolve cornstarch in water. Add to pan and cook, stirring 2 minutes.

5.Chill sauce until cold, about 15 minutes. Serve with brownies.

You can find the original recipe and nutrition information on the Becel Love Your Heart website.  They have a few other recipes I’ll be trying as well as that appear to be healthy and delicious (Lemon Blueberry Coffee Cake, anyone?)

I’m On The Hunt For:

One delicious pot roast (oven or crock pot) recipe.  

Once upon a time, I had the most delicious recipe that wasn’t so much a recipe but a scribble on a scrap piece of paper culminating my trial-and-error attempts at fine-tuning my pot roast recipe.   All I can remember is that it involved ginger and onions!  

I would toss everything into the crock pot, cook on high for 4 hours and the roast would turn out tender, juicy and oh-so-tasty.  I could even make it from memory.  The last time I made it was Christmas 2008.  Somewhere along the way I lost a few brain cells (the ones that had the recipe filed away for safe-keeping!) and I unfortunately also lost the scrap of paper and for the life of me cannot duplicate the results. This makes me a little cranky when I’m anticipating a wonderful roast and end up with a mediocre replacement. 

I’m picky about roast – it has to be perfect for me to truly enjoy it.  We’ve had some ‘ok’ roasts since then…but none have lived up to my yummy perfect concoction.   I’m willing to try something new in an attempt to find a replacement, so pass along your roast-cooking tips, recipes and secret-ingredients!

Live Your Life Well

To start on a happy note, can I just say how much I love Pier1?  I have never, ever bought anything of significance there, I just love to browse that store.  I walk out with so many ideas and a desperate desire to win the lottery.   Today, I bought a lovely reusable tote that I will be using as a gift bag – it’s cute!

On a sadder note, this morning was the funeral service for a family friend, Colleen Mills.  Colleen’s in-laws are great friends with my grandparents and our families have many connections – business, church, school, community, etc.   Alec & Colleen are my parents neighbours and I babysat for them occasionally when their 3 children were much, much younger. 
 
My heart goes out to Colleen’s family and friends.  She was so sweet and a shining example of a woman of faith and kindness.  She suffered a heart arrhythmia on January 18th and despite many prayers and the best efforts of the medical community, passed away on Saturday, March 6th.

Here is a testament to how many people were touched by her and will be saddened by her loss: 

“Roughly 600+ people waited hours to pay their final respects to colleen and the family. During the wait was the opportunity to share stories of there interaction with Colleen and her interaction in their lives.” – Thom Mills (Colleen’s brother-in-law, in a blog entry dated yesterday at http://www.colleenmills.ca/

That is a mark of life, that while much too short, was indeed well-lived.   The loss of her presence will be felt by many.  We continue to think of the family and offer prayers for comfort and peace in this difficult time.

What can I take from this sad event?  That I might leave behind a legacy of love and laughter when my time has come, that those who have lost might remember me fondly, that it too might be said of me, “She lived her life well.”